Today Kaitlin, Allison and I had a whole hour and a half to ourselves! The boys are in a Safety Town program, so Kaitlin and I dressed in our church clothes and decided to head to the Temple Visitor's Center. It was so much fun. I don't know why we don't go more often. Kaitlin made a cute card for the missionaries and we took some donuts to give to them. We enjoyed listening to the
Christus message and watching the church's commercials, but I think our favorite part was "God's Plan for the Family." I was a bawl-baby! I love how beautifully simple the gospel is. At one part, the dad and mom are up in the middle of the night with the baby and the dad asks what the most important things to teach her are. The mom says, "That she is loved, that she is a Child of God, and that we can be together forever." How plain and beautiful is that? So many times I try to figure out what is most important for my kids, feeling guilty for all I don't do and especially guilty if they aren't enrolled in everything that will help make them well-rounded individuals, but when I heard this, I just felt so much peace. It all makes sense and it was all perfectly clear for me. When I watch and listen to this presentation, I am filled with a sense of what really matters. I should probably go once a week! Anyway, it was tons of fun to go with my little girls and Kaitlin got tons of hugs from all the grateful missionaries! If you haven't been lately, I would definitely recommend it!
On a different note, I got this poem this morning and laughed! While I read it, I started feeling my chest well up with all the pressure of all the things I try to be and do! When I got done reading it, I had to stop and take a deep breath! Maybe that was why the message at the Visitor's Center meant so much to me! It's so important to try to remember what really matters!
Vickie Gunther of Redlands, California, wrote this hilarious poem, Dr Seuss style, about how much LDS women try to take on. Vickie has given permission to share it.
The Girl in a Whirl
By "Dr. Sue" (a.k.a. Vickie Gunther)
Look at me, look at me, look at me now!
You could do what I do if you only knew how.
I study the scriptures one hour each day;
I bake, I upholster, I scrub, and I pray.
I always keep all the commandments completely;
I speak to my little ones gently and sweetly.
I help in their classroom! I sew all they wear!
I drive them to practice! I cut all their hair!
I memorize the names of the General Authorities,
I focus on things to be done by priorities.
I play the piano! I bless with my talents!
My toilets all sparkle! My check books all balance!
Each week each child gets a one-on-one date;
I attend all my meetings - on time; never late!
I'm taking a class on the teachings of Paul,
But, that is not all! Oh no, not at all.
I track my bad habits 'till each is abolished;
Our T-shirts are ironed! My toe nails are polished!
Our family home evenings are always delightful;
The lessons I give are both fun and insightful.
I do genealogy faithfully, too,
It's easy to do all the things that I do!
I rise each day early, refreshed and awake;
I know all the names of each youth in the stake!
I read to my children! I help all my neighbors!
I bless the community, too, with my labors.
I exercise and I cook menus gourmet;
My visiting teaching is done the first day!
I chart resolutions and check off each goal;
I seek each "lost lamb" on my Primary roll.
I can home-grown produce each summer and fall.
But that is not all! Oh, no. Not at all.
I write in my journal!
I sing in the choir!
Each day, I write "thank you's" to those I admire.
My sons were all Eagles when they were fourteen!
My kids get straight A's and their bedrooms are clean.
I have a home business to help make some money;
I always look beautifully groomed for my honey.
I go to the temple at least once a week;
I change the car's tires! I fix the sink's leak!
I grind my own wheat and bake all our bread;
I have all our meals planned out six months up ahead.
I make sure I rotate our two-year supply.
My shopping for Christmas is done by July!
These things are not hard; 'tis good if you do them;
You can if you try, just set goals and pursue them!
It's easy to do all the things that I do!
If you plan and work smart, you can do them all, too!
"It's easy!" she said
and then she dropped DEAD!
I love this poem. We women really are amazing! I hope I always remember what is really important and somehow manage to prioritize the crazy demands of life!